Culture & Etiquette FAQ

1. Do I need to shake hands or hug when meeting?

First meeting: Light nod or handshake (avoid vigorous shaking). Acquaintances: Can smile and greet, but generally no hugging/cheek kissing (unless the other person initiates). Taboo: Don't touch children's heads (considered unlucky).

2. What are the customs for gift-giving?

Recommended: Tea, fruits (like apples symbolizing peace), small souvenirs. Avoid: Don't give clocks (homophone for 'sending off'). Don't give gifts in white/black packaging (funeral colors).

3. Can I ask about someone's income or age?

Avoid! Especially avoid asking about women's age or marital status (can ask 'What do you do for a living?' instead).

4. What should I pay attention to when eating?

Seating: Wait for the host to arrange seating, usually the guest of honor sits facing the door. Chopstick taboos: Don't insert them into the rice (like an offering). Don't point at people or tap the bowl with chopsticks (beggar behavior).

5. Do I need to finish all the food?

Not necessarily, but leaving too much might make the host think 'the food doesn't taste good'. Technique: Take small portions multiple times, leaving a little at the end to indicate 'I'm full'.

6. What taboos are there when visiting temples?

Dress code: Avoid sleeveless shirts/shorts (some temples provide shawls). Behavior: Don't step on the threshold (symbolizing 'obstacles'). Don't point or draw on Buddha statues.

7. What topics should I absolutely not discuss?

High-risk topics: Taiwan/Xinjiang/Hong Kong (considered China's internal affairs). Sino-Japanese War/Cultural Revolution.